In Sunday school over the last (well, it was supposed to be 4 weeks, but I think we're going into week 6) we've been discussing the purpose of the church. I think the decision to have this church-wide "study" was primarily motivated by the fact that we're seeing long-time members leaving the church and the pastor, rightfully, is concerned. Since we live in a highly military area, it's natural that the membership will ebb and flow as people are transferred in and out - but unfortunately that's not the reason here. One of the long-time members is someone my mom knows. I had noticed that I didn't see her anymore and asked mom if she'd heard anything from her. At the time she hadn't, but a few days later she got an email. Amidst the other news etc. was the primary reason she left, and it's the same as the reason Tim and I weren't going to come back after we visited the first time, the sermons on Sunday are, well, let's just call them "lite". A discussion with another person revealed that this may be the reason for more than just one person who has left.
So now, because of the decline, we're looking at the mission of the church, the purpose of the church. Our pastor has said that he feels the mission statement could be summed up as "Reach and Teach." Then he went on to explain that essentially this means to reach people for Christ (evangelize) and disciple Christians to deeper spiritual maturity. I agree wholeheartedly with those as the major goals of the church - any church. It is effectively the Great Commission.
In our Sunday school classes we took a deeper look and tried to view the church as an offshoot of the five purposes given in The Purpose Driven Life (PDL here on out). The end of the study (which is where we are now) involves a survey to be filled out as a class (so only one submission per class) rating the church as it pertains to the five purposes and offering suggestions for improvement, including ways each of us as individuals can help make the improvement reality. While PDL has some merit - and the purposes therein are certainly good purposes (Worship, Fellowship, Discipleship, Ministry and Evangelism), I don't believe they are necessarily where you start when trying to address the effectiveness of your church.
Last week, we started our discussion essentially in the middle - because it was a natural flow for the discussion - and began the survey looking at Evangelism. The majority of the discussion was the seeming lack of outreach to the community (our church is located in the middle of a residential area) and a question about how much we focus on other missions. This is a good discussion, but it went round and round and round. And I think it's primarily because we lost focus.
It seems like to me the way to build the church is to focus on discipleship. Because the rest is all an offshoot. If you are growing strong Christians who are challenged spiritually, who are actively reading the Bible and making their faith a strong, integral part of their lives, then the rest will come. These Christians will worship - and it will be true worship. They will enhance the atmosphere and help others enter in to worship. They will bring musical gifts and share them to increase worship. Strong Christians will gather together for fellowship - and it will be uplifting fellowship, because it will be a true gathering of 2 or 3 in His name. And even if it's just a pot-luck without a "Spiritual Goal" for the evening, God will be glorified through it. Strong Christians will take new Christians under their wings and nurture them. Strong Christians will know their gifts and will use them in ministry because they will be tuned in to God's calling. They will pour into the community and evangelize by the very way they live their lives. But this can only happen if they are being nurtured and fed and discipled into strong Christians.
I understand the connundrum. People from all walks come to the Sunday morning service. There are people who have never heard the Gosepl all the way to people who have been walking closely with Christ for 80+ years. The typical solution seems to be to try and speak to the lowest common denominator. I think this is wrong. There needs to be challenge for all walks in the service, not just for those who are new to the faith. Something that challenges a spiritually mature believer is going to challenge a new believer, but then, almost everything will challenge a new believer. To ease this challenge somewhat, I believe that Sunday school classes ought to be broken out, not by age or marital status, but by spiritual maturity. Are you new to the church? New to the faith? Been away a while? We have these classes avilable - ideally, one of these classes would follow the sermon and help to break it down each week to a more understandable level for beginners. Otherwise, there are a variety of topical or book-based studies that, prior to starting, indicate at what depth they intend to address the material (because 2 groups can study the same topic and do it at different depths and both end up with an excellent study, but one size doesn't always fit all.)
While it's more work and more challenging, I really think that an effort like this - an effort to spiritually engage people at all points in their walk - will pay off in the fulfilment of the church's mission. I also think that if we spin around trying to figure out what programs are missing, what ministries we don't have, how we can better reach out to the community, etc. without first establishing this base of solid, growth-oriented teaching, ultimately it's going to be unsuccessful.
Your thoughts?
Well said. My thought (singular...gotta love that, don't you?) is that you ought to share this, word for word, with your pastor.
ReplyDeleteErk, Gwynne, that's really putting your money where your mouth is. :/
ReplyDeleteMy only wonder is if he wouldn't find that..well...insulting? I mean, it's essentially saying that he isn't doing a good job preaching. That seems...well, mean. Though I guess if I'm willing to say it, I ought to be willing to say it to him. I'll have to think about that though.
Yeah, maybe the first few paragraphs are not helpful for him to hear, but starting with "Last week," I think it's all constructive. Coming from someone who has never worked as a pastor, so my perspective may be a little slanted. ;-)
ReplyDeleteI agree with Gwynne because if we don't know what we are doing wrong and how we can improve then how can we? I agree with what you are saying as long as a Church were good at self monitoring because otherwise they might get completely caught up in their spiritual health. In an ideal world...
ReplyDeleteIf I didn't know better, I would say you go to my church. But I know you don't. This is the problem at my church too. The staff is focusing so hard on bringing new people into the church, they are forgetting the ones that are already there and might still need them. We have had a large number leave the church too. And it's been frustrating. I myself have wanted to leave. But I don't want to impress upon my children that you leave when the going gets tough. I want them to be part of the solution. So we have stayed. I am eternally frustrated and unchallenged spiritually. But then I ask myself, who am I putting my faith in? God or my church? Asking that question puts it all in perspective for me. There has to be a happy medium, but I don't think most pastoral staffs know how to balance the two. They are getting pressure from the denominations to grow and be evangelical, but for every "body" they bring in, two more leave out of frustration with being forgotten. How do you balance the two?
ReplyDeleteYeah, there's that ideal world. :) Rachel, I'm just waiting for the ideal world myself. At that point, this'll no longer be an issue.
ReplyDeleteQueen Beth, I totally admire you for making the point to your kids that you don't leave when it gets hard. My parents made that same point very well for us. I also agree that you can make the best of a church where you're not getting what you need - you're absolutely right that your faith is in God, not the church. But when they come out and ask...well, it made me think.
I'm not sure if I have the guts to say what I think directly to them though. I tried this at one church (where kids ran unchecked up and down the aisle all the through the service and I simply asked the pastor if there wasn't something we could do - going so far as to volunteer to do children's church so at least some people could worship.) End result: we no longer go there, it was made fairly clear that we were the ones with th eproblems. So...it's just a tough situation.