This bird is such a delight.
Who knew how much I would enjoy her? Certainly not I.
Of course, because I'm me, I'm really overthinking some aspects of having a bird. Like, "Does she need a friend or three?"
The internet is no help. Everything online says "Yes! Your birds need bird friends! Buy allll the birds!"
And I mean...okay! But also, do I really have to fall down that rabbit hole?
The people I adopted her from kept her as a solo bird for 3 years. She seems very happy. She flies around. She eats. She plays. She sings.
You know, all the bird things.
So then I wonder...if I get her a friend or three, what happens if she hates them? How do I deal with bird fights? I honestly have no clue what I would do. Separate them seems like the obvious answer but then...isn't that the same as having a single bird? Or, in that hypothetical case, multiple single birds?
I've already failed in the "Let's have another kid because siblings make life better." format. My kids spend a lot of time separated. Because, real talk, they basically hate each other. Nothing I do seems to help there. People say, "Oh, give them time. When they're grown up, they'll appreciate one another."
Meh. I don't really hold out a lot of hope. But I guess we'll see.
Point being, I've bungled it with kids, so how the heck do I make the decision with a bird?
So I guess we'll see what we see.
In the meantime, I really love this bird.
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